Sunday, October 3, 2010
Judging.
If there is one talent that teenagers have, it is judging without knowing. Why is this a trait that just seems to come naturally? Is it just the natural instinct of a human being to judge someone else to make themselves feel better? I'm honestly so fucking tired of this. In some people it seems as though this is a hobby for them. Does this actually make people feel good to be judgemental? I just don't get it. We make these bullshit assumptions based on one trait in a person. We just take things and run with them, because it's much easier to judge than to actually try to understand someone. How can you judge someone based on an observation of them, or something you've heard about them? Would you want someone to judge you based on something so minuscule and not representative of who you are? I know that tons of people out there do it, but I just don't want to be one of them. Don't we all go through hardships? Don't we all have those days where we just want to give up? Why can't we all realize how similar we are, as opposed to treating each other like we are different life-forms? Why do we continue to judge people when we have no idea what they're going through? Behind any person is something that you don't know about them. We're all vulnerable, were all afraid of being hurt; and no one likes being judged. It seems like we enjoy judging because it makes us feel better about ourselves. We feel as if we have the power to put a label on someone else. We don't. It shouldn't make you feel good when you judge someone else, because i'm sure it wouldn't make you feel good if you heard all of the ignorant judgements people have made about you. Why add to the negativity and ignorance in this world? There is seriously no point. Is this what you want your purpose to be in life, to make every unintelligent judgement possible come out of your mouth? We need to use our voice and time to try and get to know,and understand people. How do you maintain and create relationships if all you do is judge everything with a pulse? Every single time you judge someone, you are just sinking yourself deeper into a jaded,negative person that you shouldn't want to become. Judging is a complete waste of your time, and if it's something that you do regularly, you need to seriously re-consider what kind of impact you want to make on the people around you.
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